my motivation

"Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be."

Thank you Charles Jones.

perfect sense

"It's not like she's still part of your life. Shouldn't matter what role she wants to play - victim or insensitively stupid. Just do your thing."

Best advice I've heard in a long time. Thank you. :)

I hope it won't be true.....

3 people who know you well have said that you can't be alone... Does that mean I will be?

I'll just have faith in you ok? ;)

10 / 90 or 90 / 10?

"Communicating in an intimate relationship is 10% about relating facts and 90% about relating feelings."

Honey..... why do I feel like you're doing it the other way around??!!! :P

fairy tales

This was part of my reply to a friend who was feeling low about a relationship she is in... She mentioned how people in general want to have the flicker of hope and that we're always wishing for a fairy tale.....

"With every fairy tale... there is that tumultuous journey before reaching the happy ending. Maybe we're always just waiting for that happy ending... but all we get is a punchline."

This might sound rather hope-less but as I was writing it, I was on the contrary feeling hopeful. I have the hope. Now someone just have to make it "ful".

empowered

It's a new day and I'm feeling empowered and inspired! :) Life really is a funny journey... I guess I've 're-realised' a few things, for which you guys will go "like duh!". :P I reckon I just got side tracked with life itself, too busy living it to realise what's important and that I'm at the center of it... I've been ignoring my well-being, ME! I am re-learning, re-living the following anecdotes :

1) Love, live for yourself - people around us should support our values and beliefs and if they don't, then we have every right to not have them in our life.

2) We have the right - to be happy. We don't have to take anything that doesn't help, support,maintain, provide for us. There's enough good in the world to go around!

3) Choice - everything is.

4) Awareness - think and we shall be / receive. :) We think so little of ourselves, our well-being that sometimes that we forego a lot of things. Having an awareness of everything around us enables us to be more grounded and be able to make conscious efforts to obtain the most from our energy circles.

5) We are worth it - we deserve only the best!!


*I can imagine the view you have at the Ganges river looking out into the Himalaya's. Just seeing that in my mind already makes me feel light, I hope you get the most out of it.*

the end

what happens to a dream when the dreamer is gone?