when ships are sinking
Do you get off a sinking ship, or go down with it?
I think that depends on who and what you're trying to salvage. If you go down with a sinking ship, then you're prepared to lose everything. You are taking that great leap of opting to stay with it, no matter how fast or slow it sinks, you just hang on, knowing that no matter what, it's the end. The sad thing about this is the fact that you're aware of the consequences and can see it coming. Either utter stupidity, great love, undying loyalty or pure guilt is keeping you on that ship. Or has been keeping you there.
Then if you do get off the ship, you could also be called a number of things ; smart, mean, ungrateful, a coward, heartless. Making the decision to get off could be the hardest thing you've ever had to do but no one cares about the means, just the end. It's almost as if they want you to die with the ship rather than see you get off it and live.
So tell me, how do you get out of friendships, partnerships and relationships without guilt, pain and suffering? Or maybe it's just easier to just let it take you down.....
I think that depends on who and what you're trying to salvage. If you go down with a sinking ship, then you're prepared to lose everything. You are taking that great leap of opting to stay with it, no matter how fast or slow it sinks, you just hang on, knowing that no matter what, it's the end. The sad thing about this is the fact that you're aware of the consequences and can see it coming. Either utter stupidity, great love, undying loyalty or pure guilt is keeping you on that ship. Or has been keeping you there.
Then if you do get off the ship, you could also be called a number of things ; smart, mean, ungrateful, a coward, heartless. Making the decision to get off could be the hardest thing you've ever had to do but no one cares about the means, just the end. It's almost as if they want you to die with the ship rather than see you get off it and live.
So tell me, how do you get out of friendships, partnerships and relationships without guilt, pain and suffering? Or maybe it's just easier to just let it take you down.....
