my motivation

"Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be."

Thank you Charles Jones.

perfect sense

"It's not like she's still part of your life. Shouldn't matter what role she wants to play - victim or insensitively stupid. Just do your thing."

Best advice I've heard in a long time. Thank you. :)